Meandering Along the Road Less Travelled

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“Taking the road less travelled”. I’ve been thinking about this saying a lot lately. For some reason it has sparked my interest after a conversation during the week about Jessie. The person said that they often found those who had taken the road less travelled to be the most amazing people. The saying made me step back and have a look at us. Jessie’s been meandering along the road less travelled for a while now. And after stepping back, from that distanced view I could see her story forming. I had a glimpse of her retelling the tale of how she became a nurse. I wonder of the future hurdles she’ll have overcome, and how beautifully multi-layered all these experiences will make her.

I’ve been staying in the day to day, not allowing myself to daydream too much about the future in any context. However there’s been a basal shift in Jessie that’s enabling her to push through her nerves and negative thoughts and get back into life. She has goals she wants to achieve, which is giving her direction and real purpose.

With Jessie at TAFE this year I’d been thinking that our lives are becoming more normal again. From our perspective they are – Jessie’s back to attending classes in a couple of weeks. To most I realise it still isn’t normal – kids Jessie’s age are studying Years 11 & 12; mine is in adult education. It’s funny how we perceive things differently depending on our own experiences. And I’ve spent way too much time worrying about not living a normal life. But what is normal anyway?? And who gets to judge?! Humans don’t generally welcome those who are ‘different’. Sadly mental illness remains judged without being understood. But that will be part of her story, and a part I don’t doubt she will continue to grow resilient against.

Jessie’s meandering road has taken her to some pretty dark places. They’ve broken her, but she’s rebuilding with an amazing capacity for compassion. The last two years in her room has been spent putting herself back together. Being determined and strong willed by nature, she’s worked so hard to be at a place where she’s really excited about the acting training, studying away from home, and making a future for herself. Being very self aware, she’s learned to manage her symptoms so much better. She’s developing a sense of self, which I’m enjoying see happen. I’d so love to see that general confidence she used to have, back as well. Give it time…having purpose does wonders for so many things.

“Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations” – auther unknown

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6 thoughts on “Meandering Along the Road Less Travelled

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  1. I am so impressed by Jessie and her resilience, she is an amazing girl and she will go far. There may always be set backs along the way, there are in anyones life and bipolar doesn’t make matters easy, but she is smart, determined and has a kick ass Mum who is there for her 110%. The world is her oyster!
    xoxo
    Kate

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    1. Thank you so much for your lovely and encouraging comment Kate 🙂 She is an amazing girl (no bias here of course), and I think she’ll get more and more adept at managing the difficult times.
      I’ll show her your comment when she gets home from work xoxo

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  2. Normal? What is that? In my view, for as long as our action is not hurting anyone, then it is normal. Let us not allow the society to dictate what is normal and what is not normal where our personal lives are concerned. Just breathe each day. Trust the journey. Let go. Live in the moment – day to day. And I hope you will stay strong for Jessie.

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